Man overcomes drug addiction with help from single mum’s ‘tough love’
He was hooked on cannabis at 15 and then got addicted to heroin.
One night in 1996, when he was in his room with a stash of drugs, he heard a knock on the door. A group of officers from the Central Narcotics Bureau had turned up, tipped off by his mother.
He was 26 then.
Mr Moses Arulandu, now 51, vividly remembers the day he was hauled up by the authorities and how stunned he was to find out that his mother had reported his and his twin brother's drug addiction.
"I was angry and thought, 'What kind of a mother was she?' But when she visited me in (DRC), I realised it was tough love," said Mr Arulandu, who was sent to a drug rehabilitation centre (DRC) for 18 months.
"She was a single mother and didn't want to see her sons destroyed by drugs."
Yesterday, around 25 years after his arrest, Mr Arulandu's road to recovery reached another milestone when he was one of 253 former offenders recognised at the inaugural Yellow Ribbon Awards.
The awards are given by the Singapore Prison Service and Yellow Ribbon Singapore, a statutory board under the Ministry of Home Affairs.
Mr Arulandu received the Beyond Second Chances Award - the highest honour - for his work at halfway house The Helping Hand, where he counsels former offenders.
The award also recognises his commitment to start again after his stint in DRC did not deter him from taking drugs.
His mother had given him a choice: Go back to DRC or seek help at a halfway house.
"I made a choice. I was tired of addiction as there was no peace," said Mr Arulandu, who checked into a halfway house for two years.
Another 324 employers, community partners, volunteers and donors who have helped give a second chance to former offenders were also lauded at yesterday's ceremony, which was held virtually.
Law and Home Affairs Minister K. Shanmugam, who was the guest of honour, said finding a job is a key part of reintegrating former offenders as it helps them to be financially independent, find community and develop a structured lifestyle. - THE STRAITS TIMES
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