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Grieving parents bury children killed in Itaewon Halloween disaster

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SEOUL – “Dad, I’m going out” were the last words Mr Jung Hae-moon heard his 30-year-old daughter utter, at the end of a chat they had by phone on Saturday as she turned down an invitation to dinner.

Hours later, Ms Jung Joo-hee was among 156 people – most of whom were in their teens and twenties – killed as they celebrated Halloween free of Covid-19 restrictions for the first time in three years at a popular neighbourhood in Seoul.

On Thursday, Joo-hee’s family buried her ashes in a peaceful family plot outside Seoul, with a planted sapling and bouquets by her grave stone, in a sombre ceremony of prayers and tears.

“Rest well. Mum and dad will come see you,” Mr Jung said, as the family stood by, together with his daughter’s pet poodle.

As news of the disaster unfolded on Saturday, Mr Jung dashed to Itaewon, a district of narrow streets full of bars and boutiques, to be met with chaos, as distraught youngsters milled about in their Halloween costumes as lights flashed from rows of ambulances.

More than 12 hours later, he found Joo-hee in a morgue, lifeless, swollen and bruised.

Joo-hee’s mother, Ms Lee Hyo-sook, said her daughter was a delight, a best friend who loved animals and wine.

“The space she leaves is too big. The place she left in the family is too much, the emptiness,” Ms Lee told Reuters after the funeral, speaking at a cafe that Joo-hee ran.

The cafe is closed with a sign in black reading: “In mourning.”

Family members of Jung Joo-hee, 30, who was one of the victims of a crowd crush that happened during Halloween festivities, pray during a mass at her grave in Namyangju, South Korea, on Nov 3, 2022.PHOTO: REUTERS

The anguish of Joo-hee’s family is being felt by all of the 156 bereaved families, as a traditional three-day wake comes to an end and their loved ones are placed in coffins to be viewed for the last time before burial or cremation.

Their grief is being shared by the county as a whole, as it struggles to come to terms with the disaster that ended so many young lives as they ventured out for what should have been an evening of fun.

Of the 156 dead, 101 were women.

‘It’s all over now’

Another grieving father, Mr Song Jae-woong, said his daughter, Young-ju, 24, was a gentle soul who was quick to befriend classmates, more than 200 of whom came to her funeral.

Young-ju dreamed of becoming an actress, her father said, speaking at a funeral home in Seoul.

“Then, things turned out like this,” Mr Song said. “Her friends told me that my daughter had a habit of seeking out and befriending anyone. She had a kind soul.”

“It’s all over now,” he said.

Some families had no idea their children were even in the crowd in Itaewon on Saturday evening.

“I had no idea she was there. It was impossible. I couldn’t believe it,” Ms Lim’s father said at a funeral home, as he and his family observed funeral rites.

The father asked that he and his daughter be identified by just their family name, Lim.

The man usually lives abroad and had not seen their only child for three years as Covid-19 disrupted travel. He first heard of the disaster when an acquaintance sent him a text message about it, not knowing his daughter was caught up in it.

Struggling with grief, he pulled out his telephone to show the message.

“She was so creative and pretty,” the man said, adding that he often strolled with his daughter through Itaewon. He used to park their car at the Hamilton Hotel next to the alley where Ms Lim died.

“I know that street very well.”

For many parents, anger is mixing with grief.

They wonder why their children were celebrating Halloween in the first place, a totally foreign concept for older Koreans.

But the biggest question for many of those mourning their children is why no safety measures were enforced to control the crowd.

“Even before this, I thought this could result in some sort of accident,” Mr Song said. - REUTERS

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